when I lost my Darling Brenda a friend consoled me with this explanation. "Some people just come through our lives to bring us something, a gift, a blessing, a lesson we need to learn, that's why they are here. She taught you something about love, giving and caring so much about someone, that was her gift to you. She taught you all that and then she left. She gave you that gift, she was a special soul. You will have that gift forever.